Americans dating the french
It will only lead to broken hearts and misunderstandings...
that way it's better to detail from the start the intentions.
Explain that while we enjoy affection, if this affection will lead to an automatic relationship it's better to keep it slow.
Would you buy a pair of pants without trying them on?
Why agree to a relationship when you don't even know the person? would you give your keys of your car to someone you just met? So why would you give the exclusivity of yourself after two dates?
The French do not agree with my viewpoint on the subject.
In France According to my various sources, the general rule for the French is simple: Three kisses makes it a relationship. I stared, open mouthed (in French: bouche bée) and repeated.. They stared back, shaking their heads, Non, like any three kisses.
If someone is starting to touch, kiss and text a lot it's a sign that the French person sees you as more than just a 'date' and considers it a 'for sure thing'; as in they really want to be your boyfriend/girlfriend.
A french person will not spend an enormous amount of money, shower you with attention and think it will go no where; also; while they are doing this- be aware they are not doing it to someone else. If you find yourself in the position where it's too serious from their end and you're not in the same place: stop giving affection. Don't go out with them alone more than once a week. express that it's a cultural difference and you enjoy being around them but you are not ready for a relationship. It's rare to have sex and not have it be something.
and it is also normal for us to date more than one person during a period of time.
Often it's just not a big deal and the good night kiss is sort of an expected thing... It's totally normal to go on a few dates, then just decide it's not for you.
They are getting to know you as a person, not you as an object.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating