Blind dating etiquette
since i was also on status quo, i didnt too give a damn. i mean real friend ; P then, here’s the thing,,, when we nurture the relationship, we let our feeling nourish, we chatted on daily basis and at some points, he wanted to get physical.
My friends seem to think different, thst he was saying I’m really busy, trying to sort my life out and will be in touch later. That’s a sign of property you plan to get rid of, not someone u care about. here’s how: dump him right away, start ignoring his texts like a bitch. this is the only possible way you could ever get him back into ur life or to respect u. Hi I’ve been through the same situation like you guys. We were talking alot thru skype, viber, whatsapp etc.
I wish I hadnt responded like I had now and just said ok understand contact me when your free. nothing else and no amount of understanding will ever work. We’ve been dating for like 2 months nearly 3months. before he decided to move to the country i’m currently working at.
Some tell me that I should text him and tell him that I don’t want to do it anymore and others tell me that I should just stop texting and just ignore him if he reaches out, which I find particularly cruel.
If you don’t want this anymore, then it really doesn’t matter what you do, does it?
Today, I received an email and he stated that he had considered a relationship with me, that he doesn’t want children. He is not romantic at all & isn’t one to express feelings much. I asked questions about where he grew up bc we drove near the area, and he took me on a tour of where he used to live, went to high school, etc. I have told him that I have already fallen for him and would like to date him. He keeps doing things to create a deep emotional connection and share his life with me, but then places me firmly in the friend zone.
But, now he said he doesn’t think it will work for him with me because he feels I may not be completely devoted to him due to I having children whom he think I would want to stay close to and he wants someone who is devoted to him. He comes to my state for 3-4 weeks at a time & then goes to other for a month or so. For last few months it’s only been couple weeks at a time that we don’t see each other. Is he just giving me what he can for the time being?
I will not contact him now as I aldo said in my reply , but will give him space and hope he contacts me as he said. Recently he said he sees us together, commited, just not today! He tells me he misses me, and even late at night he will call just to say goodnight. I slept with him on a first date and we continue hanging out every weekend.
Really hope this guy gets back in touch, it’s hard not thinking about him everyday and I try to keep myself busy to occupy my time. Im impatient, I know my worth, ve never been here before and im close to flight after mor than a year with no title. Case and point after dating a while we are on the elevator, a lady gets on, smiling at us. I thought everything is going on my way until after a month he started to change.
I’m at age (we both are) that certain other things matter than walking away – that would be the easy way. Thanks so much Hi, I’ve been seeing this guy for little over a year. He has home in my state that he lived in with his late wife who died 6 yrs ago. I’ve never known a man to do this; please help me!!!Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating