Dating and marrying an older man
Upgrade any one of the browsers below and it will make your internet life better - not just on Ranker, but everywhere!Over the course of your twenties, you’ll almost definitely have been told ‘you need an older man’ at some point by a well-meaning friend or relative unless, of course, you’re already dating one.
We think we know why we’re attracted to older men but is there more to it than we realise? She says that there is scientific evidence which suggests that ‘dad or shag’ is both a psychological and evolutionary phenomenon and not just a cultural cliché.
‘The research in this area shows that not only are younger women attracted to older men, but older men are attracted to younger women, a convenient situation for heterosexual couples’ she explains.
‘He’s really kind and right on and never a twat compared to some of my friend’s partners, who are their own age’.
Is this what attracted her to him in the first place?
‘It is funny that you contacted me about this when you did’ she says, ‘last weekend I met some friends from college and I realised that we were all married to older men.
Most of us had husbands about three to four years older, but some of us had husbands that were ten years older.
We tend to portray older men as more romantic, wiser and kinder.
Obviously, this is completely flawed because age doesn’t always prevent you from being a terrible person but, as dating apps take over and millennial men becoming increasingly hard to pin down because they’re all too busy nurturing their bromances anecdotally at least, it seems that older men who remember the world before Tinder are having their moment.
The mythologising of older men is at once frustrating and intriguing in equal measure: they’re often referred to as ‘silver foxes’ and ‘dad or shags’.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating