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Single guys in their mid-30s who want to have their own biological kids in four years don’t.

I’ve been in a terrible relationship before and honestly now, I’d rather be alone than with the wrong guy.

I believe I have a lot to offer – I am caring, kind, warm, loyal and intelligent. I am not looking for a father for the boys; they have one.

Instead of dating cute 34-year-old single guys who don’t have kids, how about you date cute 43-year-old guys who are in the exact same spot in life, who understand your predicament, who have obligations of their own, and who will be delighted to meet a woman who gets THEM.

You shouldn’t quit because single men your age want sex and more time. So I stay away from that for the same reasons that men stay away from women with children..

I am seriously at the point of giving up on the whole dating thing…

Is it too much of an ask that I could actually meet someone who can see me as a woman, and not just as mother or worse, a bit of bedroom fun? I know Everest is high, but SOME people get up the damn thing, don’t they?

She was smart, she was sexy, she was financially independent – and she had no time to give to me.

At the time, when I was 33, I blamed her for this, thinking that if she liked me more, she’d make a greater effort. What I didn’t know then is that kids suck up every second of free time you’ve got, and that you have to work extra hard to create me-time, much less couple-time.

I was married for ten years, have four beautiful boys under 9 and have a very fulfilling and successful career.

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