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I’m open about being trans, having kids and so on, and I’m regularly approached by women whose profiles specifically rule out dating parents, trans people or both. Not only do you have to rule out the people who won’t fancy you for the usual reasons (looking like a potato etc) but you also have to rule out the trans and non-binary stuff.There’s the people who want their partner to be stereotypically masculine or feminine, the people who just aren’t interested in trans or non-binary people, and the people who are interested in trans or non-binary people but who wouldn’t want to hold their hand in public.That might not just be because we’re a small minority.
That’s lovely, but I imagine the bulk of those are in the US; or, in the UK, London.
Tinder’s where boys go to meet girls and girls go to meet boys. If you’re trans or non-binary, apps offer only disappointment or dick picks. Tinder says its multiple gender options have created 13million matches for non-binary users.
Figuring out your sexual orientation is complicated for a lot of people, but for someone with a transgender partner, this can raise even more questions.
As a teen with an Ft M (female to male transgender) writes, "I just turned 18 a couple days ago. Here’s the thing, sexual orientation tends to line up with the gender of the person that you are attracted to not with their biological sex.
That being said, some people with transgender partners identify as queer, or pansexual, since they don’t feel bound by the sex or gender of a partner. You are a straight woman attracted to a masculine man. Love him for the man he is."It can be hard to label your sexual orientation when you have a transgender partner, so if you don't feel like doing so right now, that's okay.
Those terms are a little different that bisexual, which refers to people who are attracted to both men and women. Just because he was born with the wrong parts doesn't mean that he is less a man than a man born with all the male parts. But you might also want to think about why having a lesbian identity seems so uncomfortable you.Some men don’t want trans people in their space and will say so, often aggressively, and many people don’t read profiles because they’re too busy taking photos of their dicks.For them, a new face is simply a new place to post their penis.No need to waste time on long surveys either: just a couple questions and the app will start working its magic for you.A straight-identified teen wonders if having an Ft M (female to male transgender) partner means that she is a lesbian.A reader named Harley explains it like this: "I am a 23 yr old FTM, I have a straight girlfriend and I must say you really should not feel like this challenges your sexuality at all. Just like some are born with missing body parts such as an arm, or some are born with an extra thumb, FTM's are just born with the mind of a man and our body doesn't match up with our mind. Doing so might challenge some of the ideas that you have about what it means to be a lesbian.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating